BOLA’s PROFILE

Bola is an accredited integrative psychosexual and relationship therapist, providing psychotherapy and sex therapy to individuals and couples online and in person at her private practice in Kent. With over 20 years of experience in Leadership and Organisational Development, she appreciates the complexities of life, relationships, and work transitions and their effects on mental, emotional, and sexual well-being.

She holds a foundation certificate in integrative counselling and psychotherapy and a postgraduate qualification in sex and relationship therapy from Middlesex University. To further her expertise, Bola completed an Advanced Diploma in Couples Therapy at the NAOS Institute in London. As a registered member of The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT), she carries full Professional Indemnity and Public Liability Insurance.

Bola adopts an integrative approach to therapy, tailoring her methods to meet the unique needs of each client. She understands that discussing sexual lives and relationship challenges can be daunting, and she provides a safe, confidential space for these conversations. Her practice combines psychoeducation with proven tools and techniques, integrating psychodynamic, Transactional Analysis (TA), and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) theories.

Bola addresses specific sexual concerns, including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginismus, varying sexual desires, anorgasmia (lack of orgasm), and intimacy issues. Additionally, she supports clients facing challenges such as communication difficulties, relationship struggles, family dysfunction, sexual anxiety, low desire, infidelity, attachment issues, trauma, and abuse.

Through her compassionate, nonjudgmental environment, Bola encourages individuals and couples to process their feelings, fostering a more meaningful and hopeful experience. By understanding the intricacies of relationships and life transitions, she aspires to guide her clients toward a more peaceful and fulfilling life.

Qualifications:

• London Foundation Certificate in Counselling & Psychotherapy
• Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy – London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (Accredited by Middlesex University)
• Advanced Diploma in Couples Therapy – NAOS Institute, London
• Human Resources Management, London
• Chartered Fellow of the Chartered Institute of Personnel Development

Specialisms:

• Relationship issues, including infidelity, conflict and communication
• Sexual and Relationship issues – individuals and couples
• Marital and Premarital support, including attachment and cross-cultural relationship Issues
• Erectile and ejaculatory (premature or delayed ejaculation) dysfunctions
• Anxiety & Depression
• Trauma and Stress Disorders
• Painful Intercourse (Dyspareunia) or Vaginismus
• Loss of sexual desire, low libido, orgasm issue
• Bereavement and Loss
• Low Self-Confidence and Esteem
• Life Transitions – including Career, Separation and Divorce, Parenting, Menopause
• Domestic Abuse and Violence
• Family Conflict and Dysfunctions